Tuesday, September 25, 2007
Saturday, July 14, 2007
WOMAN WHAT IS
Women are human beings, and constitute half of the human population on the earth. They have been treated as weaker sex in all societies of the world. They are discriminated, maltreated and oppressed everywhere. Amidst the plenty of literature on women studies this work is unique which imparts valuable information extracted from various authoritative sources
The word ‘woman’ is a symbol of eternal mystery and enchantment, as if it is not enough that she is flesh and blood, but that she must be something higher than what she is. Woman, it seems, was created to make the world more beautiful and man more ardent in his appreciation of beauty. This mythical idea found expression in the poet’s memorable lines:
Not God alone has created you O maiden,
Man has completed your being by giving you
Beauty and grace (of his hearts’ desire).
And that description of man’s creation of woman culminates in the statement:
Your femininity, is half your womanhood,
Half is the imagination of men.
What she: A woman’s home is still her life and soul. She makes her home beautiful, bears all responsibilities of her family and meets the demands of social life, balancing her own workload all the time with domestic duties. She is also the mother of her child. With all this work the woman carries on her struggle for emancipation, for nothing is ever attained without a struggle.
Janani hai, maon bhi hai, palan har bhi vo hai, mamta ki chhaon bhi vo hai. Aanchal jaisi pyar ki gode bhi usake pas hai. Dard ki dava bhi vo hai, muskilon ka sathi bhi vo hai. Rakshak vo hai, shikshak vo hai, Jeevan ka aadhar bhi vo hai. Some one wrote about her life and her presence in these words: There comes a time in every woman's life when she has to take a close look at herself. Not at her circumstance, not at what she did, not how unfair life is, or not at whom made you do it. She has to just look at herself in all her glory and imperfection. Have you ever admired a woman who has been through changes in her life? The answer could be in our minds never, we never mind it. A woman who has endured the most unusual life is someone of wisdom, someone who has been chosen by God to go through things that have made her stronger. That woman could be my mother, sister, aunt, in-law, stepmother, niece, grandmother, great-grandmother, neighbor, friend, or co-worker, etc. That woman could be me. Women are the carriers of life, not the channels of death. Let's build and encourage each other. Pass this to all the women in your life. Encourage and Love, Forgive and Forget, and trust that the woman that receives this will be touched in some way. Further, I will say about her nature in these Hindi lines-
Krodh ki jawala vo hai, khushi ka aanand bhi vo.
Sagar se gode bhi vo hai, aakash ki chhaya bhi vo hai.
Shakti ka Bandhan bhi vo hai, kamjori ka karan bhi.
Prem ki pyasi bhi vo hai, yauvan ki udasi bhi vo,
Bhooke ki roti vo hai, pyase ka pani bhi vo.
Ran main vo , kaushal main vo, chhal ki maharathi bhi vo hai,
Yuddha kshetra main vijay ore har ka karan bhi vo hai.
Bhavukata ki jar bhi vo hai, trapti ka sadhan bhi vo,
Fashion ki deevani vo hai, lajja ka aakarshan bhi vo.
Jal main vo hai, thal main vo hai,
Gagan main bhi fahraye jhanda vo hai.
Pani jaise shitalta usamain, again ka tap bhi vo,
Badalon ki chhata bhi vo hai, varsha ki booden bhi vo hai.
Garibi bhi vo hai, ameri bhi vo hai, har mushivat ka dherya bhi vo hai.
Sunderta ki apsara vo hai, sapno ki rani bhi vo,
Vipadaon ka pahar bhi vo hai jeevan ka aadhar bhi vo.
Aurat hai, Bhavuk hai, sunder hai, kamjore hai eslia vo lachar hai. Kintu in sabke vabjood vo taran ore palan har hai. Vo nahin hai to kuchh bhi nahin hai. Shanti bhi vo hai, uttejana bhi vo, udasi bhi vo hai, prasnnata ki abhilasha bhi vo hai. Jahan dekhu vahan tu hi tu hai fir bhi tu kahti hai main kamjore hun. Shayad ye teri mansikta hai. Tu kamjore nahin hai kyon ki to paramarshdatri hai, disha nirdeshak hai, to shikshak hai to vo hai jo koi nahin hai. Thanks to all. Please suggests more and write to me at algnsinghad@gmail.com and alg.nsingh.ad@hotmail.com.
The word ‘woman’ is a symbol of eternal mystery and enchantment, as if it is not enough that she is flesh and blood, but that she must be something higher than what she is. Woman, it seems, was created to make the world more beautiful and man more ardent in his appreciation of beauty. This mythical idea found expression in the poet’s memorable lines:
Not God alone has created you O maiden,
Man has completed your being by giving you
Beauty and grace (of his hearts’ desire).
And that description of man’s creation of woman culminates in the statement:
Your femininity, is half your womanhood,
Half is the imagination of men.
What she: A woman’s home is still her life and soul. She makes her home beautiful, bears all responsibilities of her family and meets the demands of social life, balancing her own workload all the time with domestic duties. She is also the mother of her child. With all this work the woman carries on her struggle for emancipation, for nothing is ever attained without a struggle.
Janani hai, maon bhi hai, palan har bhi vo hai, mamta ki chhaon bhi vo hai. Aanchal jaisi pyar ki gode bhi usake pas hai. Dard ki dava bhi vo hai, muskilon ka sathi bhi vo hai. Rakshak vo hai, shikshak vo hai, Jeevan ka aadhar bhi vo hai. Some one wrote about her life and her presence in these words: There comes a time in every woman's life when she has to take a close look at herself. Not at her circumstance, not at what she did, not how unfair life is, or not at whom made you do it. She has to just look at herself in all her glory and imperfection. Have you ever admired a woman who has been through changes in her life? The answer could be in our minds never, we never mind it. A woman who has endured the most unusual life is someone of wisdom, someone who has been chosen by God to go through things that have made her stronger. That woman could be my mother, sister, aunt, in-law, stepmother, niece, grandmother, great-grandmother, neighbor, friend, or co-worker, etc. That woman could be me. Women are the carriers of life, not the channels of death. Let's build and encourage each other. Pass this to all the women in your life. Encourage and Love, Forgive and Forget, and trust that the woman that receives this will be touched in some way. Further, I will say about her nature in these Hindi lines-
Krodh ki jawala vo hai, khushi ka aanand bhi vo.
Sagar se gode bhi vo hai, aakash ki chhaya bhi vo hai.
Shakti ka Bandhan bhi vo hai, kamjori ka karan bhi.
Prem ki pyasi bhi vo hai, yauvan ki udasi bhi vo,
Bhooke ki roti vo hai, pyase ka pani bhi vo.
Ran main vo , kaushal main vo, chhal ki maharathi bhi vo hai,
Yuddha kshetra main vijay ore har ka karan bhi vo hai.
Bhavukata ki jar bhi vo hai, trapti ka sadhan bhi vo,
Fashion ki deevani vo hai, lajja ka aakarshan bhi vo.
Jal main vo hai, thal main vo hai,
Gagan main bhi fahraye jhanda vo hai.
Pani jaise shitalta usamain, again ka tap bhi vo,
Badalon ki chhata bhi vo hai, varsha ki booden bhi vo hai.
Garibi bhi vo hai, ameri bhi vo hai, har mushivat ka dherya bhi vo hai.
Sunderta ki apsara vo hai, sapno ki rani bhi vo,
Vipadaon ka pahar bhi vo hai jeevan ka aadhar bhi vo.
Aurat hai, Bhavuk hai, sunder hai, kamjore hai eslia vo lachar hai. Kintu in sabke vabjood vo taran ore palan har hai. Vo nahin hai to kuchh bhi nahin hai. Shanti bhi vo hai, uttejana bhi vo, udasi bhi vo hai, prasnnata ki abhilasha bhi vo hai. Jahan dekhu vahan tu hi tu hai fir bhi tu kahti hai main kamjore hun. Shayad ye teri mansikta hai. Tu kamjore nahin hai kyon ki to paramarshdatri hai, disha nirdeshak hai, to shikshak hai to vo hai jo koi nahin hai. Thanks to all. Please suggests more and write to me at algnsinghad@gmail.com and alg.nsingh.ad@hotmail.com.
Wednesday, June 27, 2007
THE MOST CONVENIENT ISSUE-SEXUALITY IN THE WORLD: (II)
Rule Of Attractions lasting relationships
The rules of attraction might drive our initial decisions, for better or worse. But lasting relationships are about much more than what we see and smell. Our behavior plays a key role, with biology an intriguing contributing factor. "The main theory is that some genes work well in combination with each other," "If these genes evolved to work in combination, then you don't want to break that up too much for your offspring. Finding a mate with similar genes will help you ensure this." Rushton told LiveScience.
If your spouse is genetically similar, you're more likely to have a happy marriage, for example. Child abuse rates are lower when similarity is high, and you'll also be more altruistic and willing to sacrifice more for someone who is more genetically like you, research shows.
Comedy can also help a relationship. But the importance of humor is different for men and women, A woman is attracted to a man who makes her laugh. A man likes a woman who laughs at his jokes. Eric Bressler
True love
Brain scans in people who'd recently fallen in love reveal more activity related to love than sex. "Romantic love is one of the most powerful of all human experiences," "It is definitely more powerful than the sex drive." says Helen Fisher, an anthropologist at Rutgers University.
Desirability- fidelity, by Stephen Emlen and colleagues of Cornell University, asked nearly 1,000 people age 18 to 24 to rank several attributes, including physical attractiveness, health, social status, ambition, and faithfulness. People who rated themselves favorably as long-term partners were more particular about the attributes of potential mates. After fidelity, the most important attributes were physical appearance, family commitment, and wealth and status.
"Good parenting, devotion, and sexual fidelity—that's what people say they're looking for in a long-term relationship,"
Love More Powerful than Sex, Study Claims by Robert Roy Britt- Sex and romance may seem inextricably linked, but the human brain clearly distinguishes between the two. Love is the more powerful emotion.
The results of brain scans speak- "Our findings show that the brain areas activated when someone looks at a photo of their beloved only partially overlap with the brain regions associated with sexual arousal," "Sex and romantic love involve quite different brain systems." said Arthur Aron of the State University of New York-Stony Brook. The study, announced in Neurophysiology Journal.
Brain signal Left & right side
To our surprise, the activation regions associated with intense romantic love were mostly on the right side of the brain, while the activation regions associated with facial attractiveness were mostly on the left, said Lucy Brown of the Albert Einstein College of Medicine.
The processing of romantic feelings involves a "constellation of neural systems." The researchers -- neuroscientists, anthropologists and social psychologists -- declare love the clear winner versus sex in terms of its power over the human mind. "Romantic love is one of the most powerful of all human experiences," "It is definitely more powerful than the sex drive."
The physiology of stalking behavior suggests that up to 40 percent of people who are rejected in love slip into clinical depression. "Rejected men and women in societies around the world sometimes kill themselves or someone else," Fisher said.
Scientist Finds in women by Jeanna Bryner areporter
Women have high expectations for nearly every area of their lives, but when it comes to sex, they settle for less. And most women keep their dissatisfaction with sex a secret, leaving their partners (let alone their doctors) in the dark, "Whereas men, if they have trouble with sex, it's a crisis. They run to the doctor and say 'I need something for this.' Women don't do that. They just sort of stuff it down and push it further down on the list,"
Anita Clayto a psychiatrist who focuses on women's sexuality at the University of Virginia Health System and having years of clinical experience) has compiled a vast collection of data on women's sex lives. She said, a female patient would visit her with issues like marital problems or depression, and only when directly asked about sex, the patient would divulge dissatisfaction.
She attributes several factors to a woman's lack of sexual satisfaction-:
(i) Sex gets shoved to the bottom of the "to do" list for women. And when they do have sex it becomes just another task.
(ii) Women are not getting their emotional needs met during sex. An orgasm might not be the point.
(iii) Many women strive for unrealistic physical perfection seen in the media and are unhappy with some aspect of their physical bodies.
(iv) Women don't ask for what they want in bed, fearing their partner will be hurt or leave them.
(v) Medications such as antidepressants can reduce a woman's libido and ability to reach orgasm.
What women want with her……..
Some women did complain about difficulty reaching orgasm or lack of sexual desire, but frequently they just felt an overall letdown regarding sex. Not knowing why they feel so deflated after sex, women assume it's their fault or they just don't bring up the topic to their partner. She said women don't have a clear awareness of their sexual desires because of social, cultural or religious beliefs that label such female wants as shameful. Outside pressures impact a woman's view of her body, which can make having sex even less appealing.
"Women are so obsessed with our physical appearance, and we really are trying to achieve some idealized woman's body that we see in the media. We always feel like we're lacking," Instead, they focus on the ever-growing to-do list and sex becomes another task at the very bottom of the list.
"Work and family come first. We end up putting sex low on the priority list," Clayton said. "Then when our partner initiates sex, it's just another task. I really believe that we as women accept a level of dissatisfaction that we don't need to accept."
Tips for success
To ramp up sexual satisfaction, Clayton suggests both partners can play a role. For one, women should know that the perfect body doesn't equal good sex. "You don't have to be a sexy bombshell-looking person to have great sex. It's really not about that. We might think that Victoria's Secret models have a great sex life, but their sex life is no better than anybody else's,".
A confident, sexy attitude and an openness to explore sensuality can breathe life into lackluster sex. Also, women can give a higher priority to sex, holding the laundry for another day. Guys can be more open to talking about what a woman wants in bed, to the point of initiating the conversation, Clayton said. And to make more time for sex, she said, men can help a girlfriend or wife with tasks around the house.
Status like people-
People who are socially dominant and either very friendly or very antagonistic tend to be more sexually promiscuous, according to a new study. Friendly, warm people may enjoy sharing their warmth with others by sleeping with them, whereas antagonistic people may sleep around to avoid having a monogamous relationship. And having a dominant personality makes it easier to approach potential partners.
Antagonistic people might prefer to have multiple sex partners in order to avoid being in a monogamous relationship, out of fear of being poorly treated or being later rejected by a committed partner, the authors noted in their study, which is to be published in the Journal of Research in Personality.
Patrick Markey says it’s particularly interesting that warm people tend to be promiscuous, because in some ways, it conflicts with the moral thinking that promiscuity is bad. Someone actually might be doing it as an expression of their warmth to other people,” he told LiveScience. “A warm person might hug lots of people; a warm person might kiss lots of people. Well, maybe a warm person might sleep with lots of people.”
A search report explain that people like Professional artists and poets hook up with two or three times as many sex partners as other people, new research indicates.
WORLD NEWS
Men and women attitudes in an intimate relationship- Men have been dubbed as being preoccupied with the physical aspect sex, but a new study has found that both men and women change their gender roles when they are in an intimate relationship. "Men experience a lot of pressure in our society to have sex with a number of different partners, the opposite of what women experience as kind of the gatekeepers of sexuality. Once they enter a relationship, however, the pressure on men to have sex is not as strong and the pressure on women to not have sex goes away". "People in romantic relationships give more importance to their own feelings and their partners' than they do to social expectations about sexual behavior," said Paul Perrin, a UF graduate student in psychology and one of the study's researchers.
The study, titled 'My Place or Yours?' published in the April edition of the journal Sex Roles, found that men are much more likely than women to find sex personally and physically pleasurable, while women tend to think that sex breaches social taboos. Too often, these sexually restrictive gender roles become self-fulfilling prophecies.
Conclusion
Though not as frequently talked about, gender roles also restrict men to a narrow range of acceptable sexual behaviour in the sense that others deem him immature and unmasculine if he doesn't have frequent sex," "Men in our sample appear to walk a fine line between wanting the risky sex that society says they should have and paying the price for having had it". Women were more likely to believe that being sexually active had negative social consequences. "Women endorsed at higher rates waiting longer to have sex and not engaging in premarital sex, consistent with the notion of women as sexual gatekeepers," he said. "Perhaps women are more interested than men are in waiting for the right person and the right moment to have sex."
Request-Dear friends read care fully don’t mind it, I am not like this but feel more about our society, generation activities so write this on the basis of researchers report and experience of the persons in the world. Please comment on this issue more as you know with your experience without any doubts. Further I will do work on another topic ………like this. Thanks. (alg.nsingh.ad@hotmail.com).
The rules of attraction might drive our initial decisions, for better or worse. But lasting relationships are about much more than what we see and smell. Our behavior plays a key role, with biology an intriguing contributing factor. "The main theory is that some genes work well in combination with each other," "If these genes evolved to work in combination, then you don't want to break that up too much for your offspring. Finding a mate with similar genes will help you ensure this." Rushton told LiveScience.
If your spouse is genetically similar, you're more likely to have a happy marriage, for example. Child abuse rates are lower when similarity is high, and you'll also be more altruistic and willing to sacrifice more for someone who is more genetically like you, research shows.
Comedy can also help a relationship. But the importance of humor is different for men and women, A woman is attracted to a man who makes her laugh. A man likes a woman who laughs at his jokes. Eric Bressler
True love
Brain scans in people who'd recently fallen in love reveal more activity related to love than sex. "Romantic love is one of the most powerful of all human experiences," "It is definitely more powerful than the sex drive." says Helen Fisher, an anthropologist at Rutgers University.
Desirability- fidelity, by Stephen Emlen and colleagues of Cornell University, asked nearly 1,000 people age 18 to 24 to rank several attributes, including physical attractiveness, health, social status, ambition, and faithfulness. People who rated themselves favorably as long-term partners were more particular about the attributes of potential mates. After fidelity, the most important attributes were physical appearance, family commitment, and wealth and status.
"Good parenting, devotion, and sexual fidelity—that's what people say they're looking for in a long-term relationship,"
Love More Powerful than Sex, Study Claims by Robert Roy Britt- Sex and romance may seem inextricably linked, but the human brain clearly distinguishes between the two. Love is the more powerful emotion.
The results of brain scans speak- "Our findings show that the brain areas activated when someone looks at a photo of their beloved only partially overlap with the brain regions associated with sexual arousal," "Sex and romantic love involve quite different brain systems." said Arthur Aron of the State University of New York-Stony Brook. The study, announced in Neurophysiology Journal.
Brain signal Left & right side
To our surprise, the activation regions associated with intense romantic love were mostly on the right side of the brain, while the activation regions associated with facial attractiveness were mostly on the left, said Lucy Brown of the Albert Einstein College of Medicine.
The processing of romantic feelings involves a "constellation of neural systems." The researchers -- neuroscientists, anthropologists and social psychologists -- declare love the clear winner versus sex in terms of its power over the human mind. "Romantic love is one of the most powerful of all human experiences," "It is definitely more powerful than the sex drive."
The physiology of stalking behavior suggests that up to 40 percent of people who are rejected in love slip into clinical depression. "Rejected men and women in societies around the world sometimes kill themselves or someone else," Fisher said.
Scientist Finds in women by Jeanna Bryner areporter
Women have high expectations for nearly every area of their lives, but when it comes to sex, they settle for less. And most women keep their dissatisfaction with sex a secret, leaving their partners (let alone their doctors) in the dark, "Whereas men, if they have trouble with sex, it's a crisis. They run to the doctor and say 'I need something for this.' Women don't do that. They just sort of stuff it down and push it further down on the list,"
Anita Clayto a psychiatrist who focuses on women's sexuality at the University of Virginia Health System and having years of clinical experience) has compiled a vast collection of data on women's sex lives. She said, a female patient would visit her with issues like marital problems or depression, and only when directly asked about sex, the patient would divulge dissatisfaction.
She attributes several factors to a woman's lack of sexual satisfaction-:
(i) Sex gets shoved to the bottom of the "to do" list for women. And when they do have sex it becomes just another task.
(ii) Women are not getting their emotional needs met during sex. An orgasm might not be the point.
(iii) Many women strive for unrealistic physical perfection seen in the media and are unhappy with some aspect of their physical bodies.
(iv) Women don't ask for what they want in bed, fearing their partner will be hurt or leave them.
(v) Medications such as antidepressants can reduce a woman's libido and ability to reach orgasm.
What women want with her……..
Some women did complain about difficulty reaching orgasm or lack of sexual desire, but frequently they just felt an overall letdown regarding sex. Not knowing why they feel so deflated after sex, women assume it's their fault or they just don't bring up the topic to their partner. She said women don't have a clear awareness of their sexual desires because of social, cultural or religious beliefs that label such female wants as shameful. Outside pressures impact a woman's view of her body, which can make having sex even less appealing.
"Women are so obsessed with our physical appearance, and we really are trying to achieve some idealized woman's body that we see in the media. We always feel like we're lacking," Instead, they focus on the ever-growing to-do list and sex becomes another task at the very bottom of the list.
"Work and family come first. We end up putting sex low on the priority list," Clayton said. "Then when our partner initiates sex, it's just another task. I really believe that we as women accept a level of dissatisfaction that we don't need to accept."
Tips for success
To ramp up sexual satisfaction, Clayton suggests both partners can play a role. For one, women should know that the perfect body doesn't equal good sex. "You don't have to be a sexy bombshell-looking person to have great sex. It's really not about that. We might think that Victoria's Secret models have a great sex life, but their sex life is no better than anybody else's,".
A confident, sexy attitude and an openness to explore sensuality can breathe life into lackluster sex. Also, women can give a higher priority to sex, holding the laundry for another day. Guys can be more open to talking about what a woman wants in bed, to the point of initiating the conversation, Clayton said. And to make more time for sex, she said, men can help a girlfriend or wife with tasks around the house.
Status like people-
People who are socially dominant and either very friendly or very antagonistic tend to be more sexually promiscuous, according to a new study. Friendly, warm people may enjoy sharing their warmth with others by sleeping with them, whereas antagonistic people may sleep around to avoid having a monogamous relationship. And having a dominant personality makes it easier to approach potential partners.
Antagonistic people might prefer to have multiple sex partners in order to avoid being in a monogamous relationship, out of fear of being poorly treated or being later rejected by a committed partner, the authors noted in their study, which is to be published in the Journal of Research in Personality.
Patrick Markey says it’s particularly interesting that warm people tend to be promiscuous, because in some ways, it conflicts with the moral thinking that promiscuity is bad. Someone actually might be doing it as an expression of their warmth to other people,” he told LiveScience. “A warm person might hug lots of people; a warm person might kiss lots of people. Well, maybe a warm person might sleep with lots of people.”
A search report explain that people like Professional artists and poets hook up with two or three times as many sex partners as other people, new research indicates.
WORLD NEWS
Men and women attitudes in an intimate relationship- Men have been dubbed as being preoccupied with the physical aspect sex, but a new study has found that both men and women change their gender roles when they are in an intimate relationship. "Men experience a lot of pressure in our society to have sex with a number of different partners, the opposite of what women experience as kind of the gatekeepers of sexuality. Once they enter a relationship, however, the pressure on men to have sex is not as strong and the pressure on women to not have sex goes away". "People in romantic relationships give more importance to their own feelings and their partners' than they do to social expectations about sexual behavior," said Paul Perrin, a UF graduate student in psychology and one of the study's researchers.
The study, titled 'My Place or Yours?' published in the April edition of the journal Sex Roles, found that men are much more likely than women to find sex personally and physically pleasurable, while women tend to think that sex breaches social taboos. Too often, these sexually restrictive gender roles become self-fulfilling prophecies.
Conclusion
Though not as frequently talked about, gender roles also restrict men to a narrow range of acceptable sexual behaviour in the sense that others deem him immature and unmasculine if he doesn't have frequent sex," "Men in our sample appear to walk a fine line between wanting the risky sex that society says they should have and paying the price for having had it". Women were more likely to believe that being sexually active had negative social consequences. "Women endorsed at higher rates waiting longer to have sex and not engaging in premarital sex, consistent with the notion of women as sexual gatekeepers," he said. "Perhaps women are more interested than men are in waiting for the right person and the right moment to have sex."
Request-Dear friends read care fully don’t mind it, I am not like this but feel more about our society, generation activities so write this on the basis of researchers report and experience of the persons in the world. Please comment on this issue more as you know with your experience without any doubts. Further I will do work on another topic ………like this. Thanks. (alg.nsingh.ad@hotmail.com).
THE MOST CONVENIENT ISSUE-SEXUALITY IN THE WORLD: (I)
So, what role will sex play in the new millennium? Our world psychologist, describe the most likely scenario based on research studies, surveys and trends. "Sex is everywhere. Women have sex with women, men have sex with men, women have sex with men--and sometimes the best sex is with oneself."
In homo sapiens, reasoning and reflection have played the greatest role in encouraging sexual selection. This selection occurs in two obvious, time-honoured ways: the choice of males by females and the choice of females by males. Thus each gender, as it were, would help shape the sexual behaviour of the other, stimulating the opposite sex to evolve in the image of its own tastes, its own sexual ideal.
Today, as women become equals to men in all walks of life and even competitors to them, the scenario has changed, dotted by environmental and cultural diversity in sexual patterns and sex appeal, the latter assuming diverse forms and groupings. For humans, sex is not only for reproduction, but a mechanism for enjoyment--both psychic and erotic. Fashion trends, which are becoming more individualistic, flamboyant and sexy, will play an increasing role in sexual appeal and sexual encounters. The media has an even more significant influence. Television, movies and magazines with a high sexual content, for instance, will increasingly provide a source for sexual stimulation and experimentation.
WOMAN- First of all knows woman and her beauty in the words of most famous Hindi poet of Shri Bihari:
Kagaj par likhat na banat, kahat sandasu lajat
Kahihe sab tero hiyo, mere hiy ki bat.
Nahi parag nahi madhur madhu nahi vikasu ehin kal
Ali kali he so bandhyo, aage kon haval. (For Raja Man Singh on another marriage)
Likhan bethi jaki sabi, gahi gahi garab garur,
Bhaye na kete jagat ke, chatur chitere koor.
Laune muhon daithi na lage yon kahi deeno ethi,
doori have lagan lagi, diyo dithona dithi.
Patra hi tithi paiye wa ghar ke chahun pass,
Nit prati punyo hi rahau aanan oy ujas.
Love, relationship, men and women: Genders attitude about sexuality:
Every human being is different. Most men like women. Most women like men. But there are men who like men and there are women who like women. Then there are men and women who are sexually attracted to both men and women. There are men out there who feel they are trapped in male bodies and that they are actually women. There are women who feel just the opposite. At one time, such men and women were considered 'abnormal', 'deviant' and 'perverse'.
Now, medical research has come to the conclusion that a whole range of sexual desires and behaviours exist in both the human and animal world. It is okay to be homosexual or bisexual or transsexual. Problems arise only when society discriminates and penalizes a person with non-conventional sexual orientations.
Sex can be wonderful. But if indulged in irresponsibly, it could lead to problems. Like unplanned pregnancy. Or even AIDS. The colours of life may begin to fade as your middle age approaches. The spirit of the youth may have melted in the burden and responsibilities to family, society, job and children. During this time without your awareness one more important aspect of life will also begin to decay. That is nothing but your interest in sexual life and the physical attraction to your partner.
Our feelings on sexuality- by Jeanna Bryner
Bachelors might have sex on their minds more than their single female counterparts, but once in a committed relationship, men and women have similar attitudes toward the act, a new study finds. The April issue of the journal Sex Roles, reveal how sexual stereotypes, in which guys want to go for it and gals tend to resist, don’t hold when romantic feelings come into play.
“Men’s experience in our society to have sex with a number of different partners,” “the opposite of what women experience as kind of the gatekeepers of sexuality.” Paul Perrin, a graduate student in psychology at the University of Florida. The scientists point out that compared with women men are more sexually permissive, endorse casual sex at higher rates and masturbate more often. And even in dreamland, men are from Mars and women from Venus.
Spin Factor
Tom Tiegs of UF and Perrin, surveyed 208 women and 131 men in an introductory psychology course and rated 160 statements on a scale ranging regarding their sexual behaviors and attitudes which divided in to into four categories.
In category 1- Personally and physically pleasurable,”
I should get drunk to enhance my sexual experience.
If I want to be close to someone, I should have sex.
I should have sex with my partner so he/she will not leave me.
I should have sex with as many people as possible.
In category 2- Beneficial in creating positive feelings about oneself,”
Sex makes my partner love me.
I feel attractive after sex.
I trust my partner more after sex.
In category 3- Personally costly in terms of having negative emotional, psychological or physical consequences,”
Sex makes me feel guilty for violating my morals.
God will punish me for having sex.
Having a one-night stand makes me feel cheap.
I will get an STD by having sex.
In category 4- A violation of social injunctions,"
I should engage in premarital sex.
I should be with my partner a long time before I have sex.
I should not have sex because I’m too attached to someone I’m having sex with.
Fact- Women placed more emphasis on the emotional aspects of sex, men focused more on the physical side of sex. Men were much more likely to find sex personally and physically pleasurable, while women were more likely to think sex violates social taboos. Men gave much higher ratings for risky sexual behaviors, such as “I should have sex with as many people as possible,” than women were more apt to endorse waiting longer and not engaging in premarital sex. Therefore, in an intimate relationship, both genders expressed that sex was important as a way to bring couples closer, to help maintain healthy relationships and to increase one’s self confidence.
History of Sex by Heather Whipps, report to Live Science
Birds do it, bees do it, humans since the dawn of time have done it. It has always offered pleasure. The time has changed and the act has also changed with the millennia. "Just as our bodies tell us what we might like to eat, or when we should go to sleep, they lay down for us our pattern of lust," says University of Toronto psychologist Edward Shorter.
Are humans doing it more? Are we doing it better? How people fess up to the truth about their sex lives that has changed the most over the years.
Hard wired
Sexuality has a lot to do with our biological framework. "People and indeed all animals are hard wired to seek out sex and to continue to do so," They engage in it as a biological imperative." Joann Rodgers, director of media relations. "To be sure, what people actually experience is always a mixture of biological and social conditioning: Desire surges from the body, the mind interprets what society will accept and what not, and the rest of the signals are edited out by culture,” Flesh: A History of Desire".
Modern advances
Many historians and psychologists see the late 1800s as a kind of watershed period for sexuality in the Western world. With the industrial revolution pushing more and more people together—literally—in dense, culturally-mixed neighborhoods, attitudes towards sex became more liberal.
The liberalization of sexuality kicked into high gear by the 1960s with the advent of the birth control pill, letting women get in on the fun and act on the basis of desire as men always had, (Shorter). This unhesitant willingness to grab sex for the sheer sake of physical pleasure," he said, noting that the trend of openly seeking out sex just because it feels good, rather than for procreation alone
Global variations and Freedom
Despite the modern tendency, there are vast differences in attitudes across the world. "Cultures vary tremendously in how early they start having sex, how open they are about it, and how many sexual partners they have," said Buss,
A global sex survey-2005 sponsored by the condom company Durex - Just 3 percent of Americans polled called their sex lives "monotonous," compared to a sizable 26 percent of Indian respondents. While 53 percent of Norwegians wanted more sex than they were having (a respectable 98 times per year, on average), 81 percent of the Portuguese were quite happy with their national quota of 108 times per year.
The Rules of Attraction in the Game of Love- by Bjorn Carey, LiveScience Staff Writer:
To figure out how we pick mates, scientists have measured every shape and angle of the human face, studied the symmetry of dancers, crafted formulas from the measurements of Playboy models, and had both men and women rank attractiveness based on smelling armpit sweat.
A short list of scientific rules for the game of love is emerging. Some are as clearly defined as the prominent, feminine eyes of a supermodel or the desirable hips of a well-built man. Other rules work at the subconscious level, motivating us to action for evolutionary reasons that are tucked inside clouds of infatuation. In the end, lasting love depends at least as much on behavior as biology. But the first moves are made before you're even born.
Conception- the human body develops by neatly splitting cells. If every division were to go perfectly, the result would be a baby whose left and right sides are mirror images. But nature doesn't work that way. Genetic mutations and environmental pressures skew symmetry, and the results have lifelong implications. Good symmetry shows that an individual has the genetic goods to survive development, is healthy, and is a good and fertile choice for mating.
"It makes sense to use symmetry variation in mate choice. "If you choose a perfectly symmetrical partner and reproduce with them, your offspring will have a better chance of being symmetric and able to deal with perturbations," said evolutionary biologist Randy Thornhill of the University of New Mexico.
Thornhill has been studying symmetry for 15 years and scanned faces and bodies into computers to determine symmetry ratios. Both men and women rated symmetrical members of the opposite sex as more attractive and in better health than their less symmetrical counterparts.
He also found that men with higher degrees of symmetry enjoy more sexual partners than men of lower symmetry. "Women's sex-partner numbers are dependent on things other than attractiveness,"
Body shape- Psychologist Devendra Singh of the University of Texas studied people's waist-to-hip ratio (WHR).
Women with a WHR of 0.7—indicating a waist significantly narrower than the hips—are most desirable to men. In general, a range of 0.67 to 1.18 in females is attractive to men, Singh concluded in a 2004 study, while a 0.8 to 1.0 WHR in men is attractive to women, although having broad shoulders is more of a turn-on.
People in the ideal hip-ratio range, regardless of weight, are less susceptible to disease such as cardiovascular disorders, cancer, and diabetes, studies have shown. Women in this range also have less difficulty conceiving. "The idea is that beauty is conveying information about health and fertility, and we admire that,"
Face structure gives insight to fertility.
Estrogen caps bone growth in a woman's lower face and chin, making them relatively small and short, as well as the brow, allowing for her eyes to appear prominent. Men's faces are shaped by testosterone, which helps develop a larger lower face and jaw and a prominent brow.
Men and women possessing these traits are seen as attractive, symmetrical dancers are seen as more attractive. The women found the scent of a symmetrical man to be more attractive and desirable, especially if the woman was menstruating.
Request-Dear friends read care fully don’t mind it, I am not like this but feel more about our society, generation activities so write this on the basis of researchers report and experience of the persons in the world. Please comment on this issue more as you know with your experience without any doubts. Further I will do work on another topic ………like this. Thanks. (alg.nsingh.ad@hotmail.com).
In homo sapiens, reasoning and reflection have played the greatest role in encouraging sexual selection. This selection occurs in two obvious, time-honoured ways: the choice of males by females and the choice of females by males. Thus each gender, as it were, would help shape the sexual behaviour of the other, stimulating the opposite sex to evolve in the image of its own tastes, its own sexual ideal.
Today, as women become equals to men in all walks of life and even competitors to them, the scenario has changed, dotted by environmental and cultural diversity in sexual patterns and sex appeal, the latter assuming diverse forms and groupings. For humans, sex is not only for reproduction, but a mechanism for enjoyment--both psychic and erotic. Fashion trends, which are becoming more individualistic, flamboyant and sexy, will play an increasing role in sexual appeal and sexual encounters. The media has an even more significant influence. Television, movies and magazines with a high sexual content, for instance, will increasingly provide a source for sexual stimulation and experimentation.
WOMAN- First of all knows woman and her beauty in the words of most famous Hindi poet of Shri Bihari:
Kagaj par likhat na banat, kahat sandasu lajat
Kahihe sab tero hiyo, mere hiy ki bat.
Nahi parag nahi madhur madhu nahi vikasu ehin kal
Ali kali he so bandhyo, aage kon haval. (For Raja Man Singh on another marriage)
Likhan bethi jaki sabi, gahi gahi garab garur,
Bhaye na kete jagat ke, chatur chitere koor.
Laune muhon daithi na lage yon kahi deeno ethi,
doori have lagan lagi, diyo dithona dithi.
Patra hi tithi paiye wa ghar ke chahun pass,
Nit prati punyo hi rahau aanan oy ujas.
Love, relationship, men and women: Genders attitude about sexuality:
Every human being is different. Most men like women. Most women like men. But there are men who like men and there are women who like women. Then there are men and women who are sexually attracted to both men and women. There are men out there who feel they are trapped in male bodies and that they are actually women. There are women who feel just the opposite. At one time, such men and women were considered 'abnormal', 'deviant' and 'perverse'.
Now, medical research has come to the conclusion that a whole range of sexual desires and behaviours exist in both the human and animal world. It is okay to be homosexual or bisexual or transsexual. Problems arise only when society discriminates and penalizes a person with non-conventional sexual orientations.
Sex can be wonderful. But if indulged in irresponsibly, it could lead to problems. Like unplanned pregnancy. Or even AIDS. The colours of life may begin to fade as your middle age approaches. The spirit of the youth may have melted in the burden and responsibilities to family, society, job and children. During this time without your awareness one more important aspect of life will also begin to decay. That is nothing but your interest in sexual life and the physical attraction to your partner.
Our feelings on sexuality- by Jeanna Bryner
Bachelors might have sex on their minds more than their single female counterparts, but once in a committed relationship, men and women have similar attitudes toward the act, a new study finds. The April issue of the journal Sex Roles, reveal how sexual stereotypes, in which guys want to go for it and gals tend to resist, don’t hold when romantic feelings come into play.
“Men’s experience in our society to have sex with a number of different partners,” “the opposite of what women experience as kind of the gatekeepers of sexuality.” Paul Perrin, a graduate student in psychology at the University of Florida. The scientists point out that compared with women men are more sexually permissive, endorse casual sex at higher rates and masturbate more often. And even in dreamland, men are from Mars and women from Venus.
Spin Factor
Tom Tiegs of UF and Perrin, surveyed 208 women and 131 men in an introductory psychology course and rated 160 statements on a scale ranging regarding their sexual behaviors and attitudes which divided in to into four categories.
In category 1- Personally and physically pleasurable,”
I should get drunk to enhance my sexual experience.
If I want to be close to someone, I should have sex.
I should have sex with my partner so he/she will not leave me.
I should have sex with as many people as possible.
In category 2- Beneficial in creating positive feelings about oneself,”
Sex makes my partner love me.
I feel attractive after sex.
I trust my partner more after sex.
In category 3- Personally costly in terms of having negative emotional, psychological or physical consequences,”
Sex makes me feel guilty for violating my morals.
God will punish me for having sex.
Having a one-night stand makes me feel cheap.
I will get an STD by having sex.
In category 4- A violation of social injunctions,"
I should engage in premarital sex.
I should be with my partner a long time before I have sex.
I should not have sex because I’m too attached to someone I’m having sex with.
Fact- Women placed more emphasis on the emotional aspects of sex, men focused more on the physical side of sex. Men were much more likely to find sex personally and physically pleasurable, while women were more likely to think sex violates social taboos. Men gave much higher ratings for risky sexual behaviors, such as “I should have sex with as many people as possible,” than women were more apt to endorse waiting longer and not engaging in premarital sex. Therefore, in an intimate relationship, both genders expressed that sex was important as a way to bring couples closer, to help maintain healthy relationships and to increase one’s self confidence.
History of Sex by Heather Whipps, report to Live Science
Birds do it, bees do it, humans since the dawn of time have done it. It has always offered pleasure. The time has changed and the act has also changed with the millennia. "Just as our bodies tell us what we might like to eat, or when we should go to sleep, they lay down for us our pattern of lust," says University of Toronto psychologist Edward Shorter.
Are humans doing it more? Are we doing it better? How people fess up to the truth about their sex lives that has changed the most over the years.
Hard wired
Sexuality has a lot to do with our biological framework. "People and indeed all animals are hard wired to seek out sex and to continue to do so," They engage in it as a biological imperative." Joann Rodgers, director of media relations. "To be sure, what people actually experience is always a mixture of biological and social conditioning: Desire surges from the body, the mind interprets what society will accept and what not, and the rest of the signals are edited out by culture,” Flesh: A History of Desire".
Modern advances
Many historians and psychologists see the late 1800s as a kind of watershed period for sexuality in the Western world. With the industrial revolution pushing more and more people together—literally—in dense, culturally-mixed neighborhoods, attitudes towards sex became more liberal.
The liberalization of sexuality kicked into high gear by the 1960s with the advent of the birth control pill, letting women get in on the fun and act on the basis of desire as men always had, (Shorter). This unhesitant willingness to grab sex for the sheer sake of physical pleasure," he said, noting that the trend of openly seeking out sex just because it feels good, rather than for procreation alone
Global variations and Freedom
Despite the modern tendency, there are vast differences in attitudes across the world. "Cultures vary tremendously in how early they start having sex, how open they are about it, and how many sexual partners they have," said Buss,
A global sex survey-2005 sponsored by the condom company Durex - Just 3 percent of Americans polled called their sex lives "monotonous," compared to a sizable 26 percent of Indian respondents. While 53 percent of Norwegians wanted more sex than they were having (a respectable 98 times per year, on average), 81 percent of the Portuguese were quite happy with their national quota of 108 times per year.
The Rules of Attraction in the Game of Love- by Bjorn Carey, LiveScience Staff Writer:
To figure out how we pick mates, scientists have measured every shape and angle of the human face, studied the symmetry of dancers, crafted formulas from the measurements of Playboy models, and had both men and women rank attractiveness based on smelling armpit sweat.
A short list of scientific rules for the game of love is emerging. Some are as clearly defined as the prominent, feminine eyes of a supermodel or the desirable hips of a well-built man. Other rules work at the subconscious level, motivating us to action for evolutionary reasons that are tucked inside clouds of infatuation. In the end, lasting love depends at least as much on behavior as biology. But the first moves are made before you're even born.
Conception- the human body develops by neatly splitting cells. If every division were to go perfectly, the result would be a baby whose left and right sides are mirror images. But nature doesn't work that way. Genetic mutations and environmental pressures skew symmetry, and the results have lifelong implications. Good symmetry shows that an individual has the genetic goods to survive development, is healthy, and is a good and fertile choice for mating.
"It makes sense to use symmetry variation in mate choice. "If you choose a perfectly symmetrical partner and reproduce with them, your offspring will have a better chance of being symmetric and able to deal with perturbations," said evolutionary biologist Randy Thornhill of the University of New Mexico.
Thornhill has been studying symmetry for 15 years and scanned faces and bodies into computers to determine symmetry ratios. Both men and women rated symmetrical members of the opposite sex as more attractive and in better health than their less symmetrical counterparts.
He also found that men with higher degrees of symmetry enjoy more sexual partners than men of lower symmetry. "Women's sex-partner numbers are dependent on things other than attractiveness,"
Body shape- Psychologist Devendra Singh of the University of Texas studied people's waist-to-hip ratio (WHR).
Women with a WHR of 0.7—indicating a waist significantly narrower than the hips—are most desirable to men. In general, a range of 0.67 to 1.18 in females is attractive to men, Singh concluded in a 2004 study, while a 0.8 to 1.0 WHR in men is attractive to women, although having broad shoulders is more of a turn-on.
People in the ideal hip-ratio range, regardless of weight, are less susceptible to disease such as cardiovascular disorders, cancer, and diabetes, studies have shown. Women in this range also have less difficulty conceiving. "The idea is that beauty is conveying information about health and fertility, and we admire that,"
Face structure gives insight to fertility.
Estrogen caps bone growth in a woman's lower face and chin, making them relatively small and short, as well as the brow, allowing for her eyes to appear prominent. Men's faces are shaped by testosterone, which helps develop a larger lower face and jaw and a prominent brow.
Men and women possessing these traits are seen as attractive, symmetrical dancers are seen as more attractive. The women found the scent of a symmetrical man to be more attractive and desirable, especially if the woman was menstruating.
Request-Dear friends read care fully don’t mind it, I am not like this but feel more about our society, generation activities so write this on the basis of researchers report and experience of the persons in the world. Please comment on this issue more as you know with your experience without any doubts. Further I will do work on another topic ………like this. Thanks. (alg.nsingh.ad@hotmail.com).
Wednesday, June 20, 2007
INDIA'S MAIN POLITICAL PROBLEMS
What solution lies- control over casteism in politics- Is it possible that people coming out of caste politics? Never, Who are good candidates for representation of people in a democratic country? Do our national parties provide seats to them to fight election or candidates with criminal’s background will let them stand against there self’s to fight election? In my opinion never, because as Prof R K Gupta wrote in his article that “our communities are strongly divided in caste line which was exploited by the British and then Congress and now Maya promote it highly”. VP Singh (a worst politician in Indian history) played the card by pulling out Mandal Commission report lying in dust. This Mandal Commission was appointed by Indira Gandhi to get rid of the pressure to give reservation to backward classes for her political benefit. So this dirty game is going on since 1970 onwards. Why Gujjars should not ask for reservations and why not devasis who are very poor animal grazers and backward and why not Brahmins as per the survey done now they are also in minority. (Brahmins in UP are with Maya and form the Government)
Can you give me the name of any politician who have died in such riots which take place in India time to time on the name of community, reservation or any burning issue where innocent citizen have lost there life. There are soldiers who give there life’s in serving the nation i.e. our mother land INDIA, that soldier is not remembered for that but these dirty and corrupt politicians when die still remembered as a leader of society, great politician and so on. The state will remain close on that day but do we have any day on which we can remember those real hero’s who laid there lives for the nation. I salute to them. We can over come of this problem once any politician died on road bitten by the general public like you and me for his wrong doings like creating difference on the name of RAM- RAHIM, Reservations and other issues.
I know they do this because they don’t have the answer of our questions those questions related to the problems of individual that one phase in day to day life like Electricity, Water, Proper Education. Medical facility, food, roads, roof, population, etc even after 50 years of independence. They want us to fight for caste, region, reservation so that we will not think of above problems and they can encash this for there political benefits.
Could be good questions but is that possible because there will be a fighting for reservation in the country from the different regions, some of them appose it as happened in Rajasthan (like Meena because they have include in ST). So by reservations can you make any community grow or become forward?
This whole game about which we have been warning for many years was deliberately ignored by corrupt bureaucrats, criminals and self seeking people who have entered in politics. Most of them are there and want to become the champion of Dalits.
My question on the above comment is: who is the Masiha of Dalits and want to promote them politically, socially and economically ? (Maya, Arjun, Pasvan or V.P. Singh)
Indian public is full of idiots and caste minded self seeking peoples it is the duty of educated people like us and politicians to lead the way in right direction. In my view, all reservations should be immediately stopped because the benefit is always taken by highly powerful persons in the cast not by the real poor, so therefore, there should be no fully cast basis reservation.
This caste based reservation will take the country towards civil war and has no end. Half of country is already burning from many years now. The states have also started this type of movement (Maharastra, Bihar and Assam on railway recruitment).
The time has come when the people will express their anger due to unemployment, rising prices, caste based favoritism, corruption and poor administration. Every one including bureaucracy, police and big business houses are busy in making money and Playing with the sentiments of the people and consumers. There are no employment avenues.
Tomorrow another caste will come out on roads and Brahmins and Baniyas will not keep quiet. Ultimately they too will hit back. Who is behind this, our people or political leaders who represent the people or a group of cast? The answer is very simple no one wants to grow whole of the society they live in, but only to fulfill there self-interest, Family welfare and attain it by giving fuel to such matters which can only increase differences in the community. Our pandit says that It is a call of the time that all citizens of India come out of caste we know that too, but it is not possible because our Constitution has provisions in its schedule.
The reservation mold and too for economic development and assistance based on economical backwardness. But the OBCs and SC/STs (The creamy layer of a few people) will not allow this.
The dirty politicians and vote seeking selfish people like Mayawati,Mulayam and so many others won’t allow this. They know we are fools. They know caste reservation will sell. People don't even know where are jobs?One thing is sure, India is moving towards serious civil war like situation. Homes are breaking, law & order machinery is non functional, there is no fear of law, courts are inefficient, police is ineffective and corrupt, bureaucracy is enjoying at public money. Jobs are vanishing. Poverty is actually increasing. So what will happen?Naxalite type movements, Maoist type movements, crimes, squatting, property grabbing, violence and fights. Because common citizens have to take out their rage and injustice caused to them at every stage and in every department.
Loot and sham liberalization
Capitalists are nothing but finacial invaders. You can win societies by two ways- my muscle or by money. Third of-course is woman but that can't be used in whole sale, though there are instances of using women to seize power.Capitalism does not mean growth of people and freedom. It means concentration of wealth in few hands. It is another western form of 'samantavad' by Prof. R K Gupta.
This type of Samantvad aaj bhi kayam hai ore yah kabhi khatma bhi nahin ho sakta kyon ki society ore community always guided by our dabang so call netas who have no moral or ethics. This is the country where people is depends upon the work of mashiya or god they never want to oppose wrong doings. They promote them, encourage them and also vote them. Today Maya is in growing power and each man who supports Maya is a gang man or the man of looting civilization. They purchase tickets of BSP lottary because the Maya has a vote bank today.
The MNCs who come here in India, sell old technology based products in 10-100 times the cost. (I have been a buyer of American products and machines when in industry) and know how filthy they are. By Prof. R K Gupta.Fixing so huge salaries making mockery of poor citizens of India and principles of egalitarian society. They are bleeding the nation in name of liberalization and free markets. Liberalization for whom? Is that for the man of corrupt circles of polticians, bureacrats and busienssmen?
Looting is not business. Business is ethics and serving society. All these high salaries and perks come from blood and sweat of consumers and poor tax payers. I am ready to take over from any of them if they think they are so. There is lot of talent waiting in this country to be given chance.
Aavaj do jo aatma se aaye……….avam hum ore aapko milaye ek kranti ke aavhan ke lia jo badal dale Hindustan ki avam ko, cast ki rajneeti ko, badle ki bhawna ko, vyakti ki lalsa ko. Hamen atal banana hoga mayawati nahin ore na hi Bhainsla hamen logon ki seva karni hogi, desh ko bachana hoga garibi ko mitana hoga, har samasya ka samadhan samay se karma hoga jisase koi Gurzar aandolan jaisi amanvia ghatna na ho sake. Jai hind Jai Bharat or jai deep. Analysis by N Singh
Can you give me the name of any politician who have died in such riots which take place in India time to time on the name of community, reservation or any burning issue where innocent citizen have lost there life. There are soldiers who give there life’s in serving the nation i.e. our mother land INDIA, that soldier is not remembered for that but these dirty and corrupt politicians when die still remembered as a leader of society, great politician and so on. The state will remain close on that day but do we have any day on which we can remember those real hero’s who laid there lives for the nation. I salute to them. We can over come of this problem once any politician died on road bitten by the general public like you and me for his wrong doings like creating difference on the name of RAM- RAHIM, Reservations and other issues.
I know they do this because they don’t have the answer of our questions those questions related to the problems of individual that one phase in day to day life like Electricity, Water, Proper Education. Medical facility, food, roads, roof, population, etc even after 50 years of independence. They want us to fight for caste, region, reservation so that we will not think of above problems and they can encash this for there political benefits.
Could be good questions but is that possible because there will be a fighting for reservation in the country from the different regions, some of them appose it as happened in Rajasthan (like Meena because they have include in ST). So by reservations can you make any community grow or become forward?
This whole game about which we have been warning for many years was deliberately ignored by corrupt bureaucrats, criminals and self seeking people who have entered in politics. Most of them are there and want to become the champion of Dalits.
My question on the above comment is: who is the Masiha of Dalits and want to promote them politically, socially and economically ? (Maya, Arjun, Pasvan or V.P. Singh)
Indian public is full of idiots and caste minded self seeking peoples it is the duty of educated people like us and politicians to lead the way in right direction. In my view, all reservations should be immediately stopped because the benefit is always taken by highly powerful persons in the cast not by the real poor, so therefore, there should be no fully cast basis reservation.
This caste based reservation will take the country towards civil war and has no end. Half of country is already burning from many years now. The states have also started this type of movement (Maharastra, Bihar and Assam on railway recruitment).
The time has come when the people will express their anger due to unemployment, rising prices, caste based favoritism, corruption and poor administration. Every one including bureaucracy, police and big business houses are busy in making money and Playing with the sentiments of the people and consumers. There are no employment avenues.
Tomorrow another caste will come out on roads and Brahmins and Baniyas will not keep quiet. Ultimately they too will hit back. Who is behind this, our people or political leaders who represent the people or a group of cast? The answer is very simple no one wants to grow whole of the society they live in, but only to fulfill there self-interest, Family welfare and attain it by giving fuel to such matters which can only increase differences in the community. Our pandit says that It is a call of the time that all citizens of India come out of caste we know that too, but it is not possible because our Constitution has provisions in its schedule.
The reservation mold and too for economic development and assistance based on economical backwardness. But the OBCs and SC/STs (The creamy layer of a few people) will not allow this.
The dirty politicians and vote seeking selfish people like Mayawati,Mulayam and so many others won’t allow this. They know we are fools. They know caste reservation will sell. People don't even know where are jobs?One thing is sure, India is moving towards serious civil war like situation. Homes are breaking, law & order machinery is non functional, there is no fear of law, courts are inefficient, police is ineffective and corrupt, bureaucracy is enjoying at public money. Jobs are vanishing. Poverty is actually increasing. So what will happen?Naxalite type movements, Maoist type movements, crimes, squatting, property grabbing, violence and fights. Because common citizens have to take out their rage and injustice caused to them at every stage and in every department.
Loot and sham liberalization
Capitalists are nothing but finacial invaders. You can win societies by two ways- my muscle or by money. Third of-course is woman but that can't be used in whole sale, though there are instances of using women to seize power.Capitalism does not mean growth of people and freedom. It means concentration of wealth in few hands. It is another western form of 'samantavad' by Prof. R K Gupta.
This type of Samantvad aaj bhi kayam hai ore yah kabhi khatma bhi nahin ho sakta kyon ki society ore community always guided by our dabang so call netas who have no moral or ethics. This is the country where people is depends upon the work of mashiya or god they never want to oppose wrong doings. They promote them, encourage them and also vote them. Today Maya is in growing power and each man who supports Maya is a gang man or the man of looting civilization. They purchase tickets of BSP lottary because the Maya has a vote bank today.
The MNCs who come here in India, sell old technology based products in 10-100 times the cost. (I have been a buyer of American products and machines when in industry) and know how filthy they are. By Prof. R K Gupta.Fixing so huge salaries making mockery of poor citizens of India and principles of egalitarian society. They are bleeding the nation in name of liberalization and free markets. Liberalization for whom? Is that for the man of corrupt circles of polticians, bureacrats and busienssmen?
Looting is not business. Business is ethics and serving society. All these high salaries and perks come from blood and sweat of consumers and poor tax payers. I am ready to take over from any of them if they think they are so. There is lot of talent waiting in this country to be given chance.
Aavaj do jo aatma se aaye……….avam hum ore aapko milaye ek kranti ke aavhan ke lia jo badal dale Hindustan ki avam ko, cast ki rajneeti ko, badle ki bhawna ko, vyakti ki lalsa ko. Hamen atal banana hoga mayawati nahin ore na hi Bhainsla hamen logon ki seva karni hogi, desh ko bachana hoga garibi ko mitana hoga, har samasya ka samadhan samay se karma hoga jisase koi Gurzar aandolan jaisi amanvia ghatna na ho sake. Jai hind Jai Bharat or jai deep. Analysis by N Singh
A SAD FATHER POEM ON HIS DAUGHTER
A beautiful poem written by a Father to save his Daughter
DAD - BABY RACHEL - MOMA sad Dad's poem...This beautiful poem written by a sad dad about her baby Rachel and is an appeal from a Zimbabwean couple at the bottom of message, not asking for anything more than that you hand the poem on.
To MY CHILDJust for this morning, I am going to smile
when I see your face and laughwhen I feel like crying.I will let youchoose what you want to wear,and smile and say how perfect it is.I am going to step over the laundry
and pick you up and take you to the park to play.I will leave the dishes in the sink,
and let you teach me how to put that puzzle of yours together.
Just for this afternoon, I will unplugthe telephone and keep the computer off,
and sit with you in the backyard and blow bubbles.I will not yell once, not even a tiny grumble
when you scream and whine for the ice cream truck,
and I will buy you one if he comes by.I won't worryabout what you are going to be when you grow up,
or second guess every decision I have made where you are concern ed.I will let youhelp me bake cookies, and I won't stand over you trying to fix them.I will take usto McDonald's and buy us both a Happy Meal so you can have both toys.
Just for this evening,
I will hold you in my arms and tell you a story about how you were born and how much I love you.I will let yousplash in the tub and not get angry.I will let youstay up late while we sit on the porch and count all the stars.I will snugglebeside you for hours, and miss my favourite TV shows.when I run myfinger through your hair as you pray,
I will simply be grateful that God has given me the greatest gift ever given.I will think about the mothers and fathers who are searching for their missing children, the mothers and fathers who are visiting their children's graves instead of their bedrooms. The mothers and fathers who are in hospital rooms watching their children suffer senselessly and screaming inside that little body and when I kiss you goodnight I will hold you a little tighter, a little longer. It is then, that I will thank God for you, and ask him for nothing, except one more day......... ....
Hi! I am a 29-year-old father. God blessed us with a child too. Our aughter's name is Rachel and she is 10 months old. Not long ago did the doctors detect brain cancer in her little body.
Prayer/request
There is only one way to save her and that is an operation. Sadly we don't have the money for the operation. AOL and Zdnet (in Zimbabwe ) have agreed to help us.
My self wishes, God save her life and give courage for mother & father of the baby. (N Singh)
DAD - BABY RACHEL - MOMA sad Dad's poem...This beautiful poem written by a sad dad about her baby Rachel and is an appeal from a Zimbabwean couple at the bottom of message, not asking for anything more than that you hand the poem on.
To MY CHILDJust for this morning, I am going to smile
when I see your face and laughwhen I feel like crying.I will let youchoose what you want to wear,and smile and say how perfect it is.I am going to step over the laundry
and pick you up and take you to the park to play.I will leave the dishes in the sink,
and let you teach me how to put that puzzle of yours together.
Just for this afternoon, I will unplugthe telephone and keep the computer off,
and sit with you in the backyard and blow bubbles.I will not yell once, not even a tiny grumble
when you scream and whine for the ice cream truck,
and I will buy you one if he comes by.I won't worryabout what you are going to be when you grow up,
or second guess every decision I have made where you are concern ed.I will let youhelp me bake cookies, and I won't stand over you trying to fix them.I will take usto McDonald's and buy us both a Happy Meal so you can have both toys.
Just for this evening,
I will hold you in my arms and tell you a story about how you were born and how much I love you.I will let yousplash in the tub and not get angry.I will let youstay up late while we sit on the porch and count all the stars.I will snugglebeside you for hours, and miss my favourite TV shows.when I run myfinger through your hair as you pray,
I will simply be grateful that God has given me the greatest gift ever given.I will think about the mothers and fathers who are searching for their missing children, the mothers and fathers who are visiting their children's graves instead of their bedrooms. The mothers and fathers who are in hospital rooms watching their children suffer senselessly and screaming inside that little body and when I kiss you goodnight I will hold you a little tighter, a little longer. It is then, that I will thank God for you, and ask him for nothing, except one more day......... ....
Hi! I am a 29-year-old father. God blessed us with a child too. Our aughter's name is Rachel and she is 10 months old. Not long ago did the doctors detect brain cancer in her little body.
Prayer/request
There is only one way to save her and that is an operation. Sadly we don't have the money for the operation. AOL and Zdnet (in Zimbabwe ) have agreed to help us.
My self wishes, God save her life and give courage for mother & father of the baby. (N Singh)
Tuesday, June 5, 2007
SENSITIVE VOICE
Aavaj do par jati ki nahin, garibi ko door bhagane ki
Reservation ki nahin, arthik madad karne ki,
Jan manas ko aapas main ladhane ki nahin,
balki unke beech samanvay sthapit karne ki,
Samasyaon ko uchit samay par suljhane ki,
Vikash karyon avam yojanaon se avagat karane ki
Sarkar ore janta ke beech pardarshita lane ki
Bhrashtachar ko dur bhagane ki.
Aavaj do samantwadi rajneeti ka virodh karne ki,
Janmans ko uski antrik bhavnaon ka abhas karane ki
Garib ko bhi pyar karne ki, dalit ore jati ki bat na karne ki
Jati, cast, dalit, backward, ST, SC, BC and OBC aadi ke sthan par,
Garib shabd se sambodhit karne ki chahe vah kisi bhi jati ka ho
Esase hamari bhawnain badlaingi, jatiwad ki ladhai khatma hogi,
Reservation ki rajniti ka khatma bhi hoga,
Samantwadi neta swam hi vilupt ho jayange,
sarkari taur par koi dalit nahin hoga,
shabhi pyar se apane - 2 karya karenge.
We log bhi dalit hi hote hain jo hamare paida hote hi
Hamara shuddhikaran apne maram sparshi haton se,
Pyar ke sath hamen hamari suswapnawastha se jagrat karte hain
Hamen hamari muskarahat ke sath,
Yad karo unhain we hamesha garib hote hain.
Garibi ka path padhne ore padhane wale hamesha dayalu hote hain
Aao hum sab kyon na milkar es tarah ki sarkar ki sthapana karne ki
sapath lain ore Aage badhen. Jay hind, jay bharat, jay garib.
Reservation ki nahin, arthik madad karne ki,
Jan manas ko aapas main ladhane ki nahin,
balki unke beech samanvay sthapit karne ki,
Samasyaon ko uchit samay par suljhane ki,
Vikash karyon avam yojanaon se avagat karane ki
Sarkar ore janta ke beech pardarshita lane ki
Bhrashtachar ko dur bhagane ki.
Aavaj do samantwadi rajneeti ka virodh karne ki,
Janmans ko uski antrik bhavnaon ka abhas karane ki
Garib ko bhi pyar karne ki, dalit ore jati ki bat na karne ki
Jati, cast, dalit, backward, ST, SC, BC and OBC aadi ke sthan par,
Garib shabd se sambodhit karne ki chahe vah kisi bhi jati ka ho
Esase hamari bhawnain badlaingi, jatiwad ki ladhai khatma hogi,
Reservation ki rajniti ka khatma bhi hoga,
Samantwadi neta swam hi vilupt ho jayange,
sarkari taur par koi dalit nahin hoga,
shabhi pyar se apane - 2 karya karenge.
We log bhi dalit hi hote hain jo hamare paida hote hi
Hamara shuddhikaran apne maram sparshi haton se,
Pyar ke sath hamen hamari suswapnawastha se jagrat karte hain
Hamen hamari muskarahat ke sath,
Yad karo unhain we hamesha garib hote hain.
Garibi ka path padhne ore padhane wale hamesha dayalu hote hain
Aao hum sab kyon na milkar es tarah ki sarkar ki sthapana karne ki
sapath lain ore Aage badhen. Jay hind, jay bharat, jay garib.
GARIB KON HAI
Garib vo hai jo aapko samradh shali banata hai
Garib vo hai jo aapke lia mahal banata hai
Garib vo hai jo aapke lia har jarooratmand vyavastha karta hai
Garib vo hai jo aapke lia karon ki chader pitta hai
Ore enhain daurane ke lia road bhi banmata hai
Vo garib hai jo aapke lia anaj, dalen ore sabjiyan paida karta hai
Vo mitti main rahta hai, mitti hi khata hai ore mitti main hi sota hai
Mitti hi mata hai usaki ore pita bhi hai mitti
Mrityu hai abhilasha usaki, jeevan hai asha usaki
Rat, din, dhoop ore varish sab hain usake jeevan sathi
Rah door desh ore jangal main chinta karta hai vo aapaki
Mangata hai duayen aaphi ke lia vah din rat tarakki ki
hota hai khush Dekhkar tarakki hi aapki vo,
Sunata hai jab hal vo aapka lagta hai ho bhagvan aap usake
Hai garib rahta garib jeeta garib marta garib
Kya hamne kabhi socha eske lia
Hum sochate hai upne lia ladhate hai enko aapas main
Upne faide ke lia ore bhool jate hain jab ho jata hai faida hamara
Dhanya ho aap mahanubhavo, dhanya ho aapki mahanta.
Dear friends some lines of a poem written by our hearted poet shri Dinkar ji descripting moral of this type of people:
“Swatantrya garv unka jo nar fankon main pran gavante hai
Par nahin bech man ka prakash, roti ka mole chukate hai.”
Please read the poem of Shri Sachidanand Hiranand Vatsyayan ‘Agyei’ – “Main Vahan Hun” Vartman ore bhavishya ke beech setu hun- Karmkar, Shrimik, Shilpi ore Srashta and know the man of garibi
Garib vo hai jo aapke lia mahal banata hai
Garib vo hai jo aapke lia har jarooratmand vyavastha karta hai
Garib vo hai jo aapke lia karon ki chader pitta hai
Ore enhain daurane ke lia road bhi banmata hai
Vo garib hai jo aapke lia anaj, dalen ore sabjiyan paida karta hai
Vo mitti main rahta hai, mitti hi khata hai ore mitti main hi sota hai
Mitti hi mata hai usaki ore pita bhi hai mitti
Mrityu hai abhilasha usaki, jeevan hai asha usaki
Rat, din, dhoop ore varish sab hain usake jeevan sathi
Rah door desh ore jangal main chinta karta hai vo aapaki
Mangata hai duayen aaphi ke lia vah din rat tarakki ki
hota hai khush Dekhkar tarakki hi aapki vo,
Sunata hai jab hal vo aapka lagta hai ho bhagvan aap usake
Hai garib rahta garib jeeta garib marta garib
Kya hamne kabhi socha eske lia
Hum sochate hai upne lia ladhate hai enko aapas main
Upne faide ke lia ore bhool jate hain jab ho jata hai faida hamara
Dhanya ho aap mahanubhavo, dhanya ho aapki mahanta.
Dear friends some lines of a poem written by our hearted poet shri Dinkar ji descripting moral of this type of people:
“Swatantrya garv unka jo nar fankon main pran gavante hai
Par nahin bech man ka prakash, roti ka mole chukate hai.”
Please read the poem of Shri Sachidanand Hiranand Vatsyayan ‘Agyei’ – “Main Vahan Hun” Vartman ore bhavishya ke beech setu hun- Karmkar, Shrimik, Shilpi ore Srashta and know the man of garibi
Monday, May 28, 2007
CORRUPTION AND TRANSPARENCY INTERNATIONAL
COMBATING CORRUPTION: THE VALUE OF ECONOMIC ANALYSIS
"Corruption hurts the poor disproportionately by diverting funds intended for development, undermining a government's ability to provide basic services, feeding inequality and injustice, and discouraging foreign investment and aid".
It is an act in which the power of public office is used for personal gain in a manner that contravenes the rules, is a persistent feature of societies around the world and throughout history.
"Corruption hurts the poor disproportionately by diverting funds intended for development, undermining a government's ability to provide basic services, feeding inequality and injustice, and discouraging foreign investment and aid".
It is an act in which the power of public office is used for personal gain in a manner that contravenes the rules, is a persistent feature of societies around the world and throughout history.
A CULTURE OF CORRUPTION
Some people argue that corruption should be accepted as the normal way of doing business in many non-Western cultures. Transparency International study found that “no culture or society sanctions the abuse of power for personal gain or the siphoning off of public resources into private pockets.”
Some people argue that corruption should be accepted as the normal way of doing business in many non-Western cultures. Transparency International study found that “no culture or society sanctions the abuse of power for personal gain or the siphoning off of public resources into private pockets.”
When it arises? It arises if a combination of circumstances is present
First- the relevant public official (a bureaucrat, politician or judge) must possess the authority to design regulations or to administer them in a discretionary manner.
Second- the discretionary power must allow extraction of ‘rents’ or creations of rents that can be extracted.
Third- the incentive system embodied in political, administrative and legal procedures and institutions must be such that officials are left with an incentive to exploit their discretionary power to extract or create rents.
The Other Most important reasons are
The sale of parliamentary seats in ‘rotten boroughs’,
Poorly paid and inadequately supervised to the civil servants and other officials.
While sociologists and anthropologists often focus on culture as a key determinant of corruption,
Economists emphasis incentives and view corruption as the outcome of a rational calculation.
Thus, “incentives” are crucial both for understanding why corruption arises in the first place and for what can be done to reduce it? Proper incentives can be created by effective monitoring, by rewarding public officials with salaries above market alternatives and by penalising corruption when it is discovered.
The sale of parliamentary seats in ‘rotten boroughs’,
Poorly paid and inadequately supervised to the civil servants and other officials.
While sociologists and anthropologists often focus on culture as a key determinant of corruption,
Economists emphasis incentives and view corruption as the outcome of a rational calculation.
Thus, “incentives” are crucial both for understanding why corruption arises in the first place and for what can be done to reduce it? Proper incentives can be created by effective monitoring, by rewarding public officials with salaries above market alternatives and by penalising corruption when it is discovered.
In short, corruption feeds on super-normal profits that are created by the introduction of inefficient policy measures. The inefficient policy is the real cost of corruption and which is so detrimental to economic development. Once it takes root, corruption can be very persistent. This is because incentives to accept bribes are very different in societies with high and low levels of corruption. One reason is that reporting of corruption is less likely to happen in an environment in which almost all individuals take bribes and so, it pays for each individual to accept bribes because the risk is smaller. This makes it extremely difficult to combat corruption in societies with high levels of corruption, and sustained, large-scale reforms of the incentive structures are the only way to move a society away from a high corruption ‘equilibrium’ to one with low corruption.
Kofi Annan, United Nations Secretary-General
Addressing Corruption through Democratic Government
Corruption, simply put, is the misuse of power for private gain. Corruption is an issue in both developing and developed countries. Incentives and opportunities for corruption differ depending on a society’s economic and political institutions. Corruption has a distinct and direct impact on the development prospects of a nation.
Corruption, simply put, is the misuse of power for private gain. Corruption is an issue in both developing and developed countries. Incentives and opportunities for corruption differ depending on a society’s economic and political institutions. Corruption has a distinct and direct impact on the development prospects of a nation.
Economically, corruption can lead to poor public choices and the allocation of scarce public resources to uneconomic high profile projects. But the cost of corruption extends well beyond the economic. It touches upon both political and social factors.
Politically, corruption fosters an anti-democratic environment characterized by uncertainty, unpredictability and declining moral values and disrespect for constitutional institutions and the law.
Socially, the impact of corruption can tear apart the fabric of society. Increased mistrust in the leadership and the regime can lead to instability. Corruption reflects a deficit of democracy, human rights and governance that undermines efforts to achieve the Millennium Development Goals (MDGs) and negatively impacts social and political stability.
TRUE FACTS
The downward spiral begins when people start tolerating, for example, demands for small payments in return for official services such as the issuing of certificates and licenses. While they may initially not approve of this behaviour they perceive it as the most workable way of obtaining things they want or need and the conduct continues until one day such behaviour is not even perceived as wrong behaviour any longer. Such a culture of corruption is extremely difficult to address, as we are then not only talking about what is legally acceptable, but also what is morally acceptable. And that requires not only changing the laws, institutions and procedures, but also people’s minds, which is the most difficult part.
The downward spiral begins when people start tolerating, for example, demands for small payments in return for official services such as the issuing of certificates and licenses. While they may initially not approve of this behaviour they perceive it as the most workable way of obtaining things they want or need and the conduct continues until one day such behaviour is not even perceived as wrong behaviour any longer. Such a culture of corruption is extremely difficult to address, as we are then not only talking about what is legally acceptable, but also what is morally acceptable. And that requires not only changing the laws, institutions and procedures, but also people’s minds, which is the most difficult part.
PROTECTION
Corruption is a complex and multi-sectoral phenomenon. It requires more than just a good legal framework, as necessary as that may be. Corruption can only be defeated when institutional arrangements and ethical value systems governed by principles of accountability, transparency and participation are firmly in place.
Corruption is a complex and multi-sectoral phenomenon. It requires more than just a good legal framework, as necessary as that may be. Corruption can only be defeated when institutional arrangements and ethical value systems governed by principles of accountability, transparency and participation are firmly in place.
Accountability is about responsibility, but it is more than that. It prevails when individuals and organizations are liable to explain and take responsibility for their performance measured as objectively as possible. One way to strengthen accountability in the public sector is through a transparent and merit-based system of selecting, promoting, rewarding and disciplining civil servants.
Transparency involves facilitating citizens’ access to information and their understanding of decision-making mechanisms. It covers the duty of public servants to act visibly, predictably and understandably. In principle all information about the state and the undertakings of the state, except for state secrets, should be available to any citizen for scrutiny. One challenge that law and policy-makers face is how to balance the principle of transparency with the right to privacy. There is no easy solution, but one should not be used as an excuse to evade the other.
Participation- Information is of little value unless people can use their knowledge to influence government behaviour. In order to do so citizens must be able to participate, directly or through representation, in processes of decision-making, implementation and oversight in the areas of public resource allocation and investment; in development and delivery of public services; and in development of public institutions. Respecting and promoting the freedom of association and free media are an important element in promoting active participation of citizens in the fight against corruption.
Another vital aspect is the protection of people reporting corruption – “whistleblowers”. In countries where corruption is systemic and where there is no or little protection, whistleblowers risk being disciplined by corrupt superiors and may even end up being accused of corruption themselves. Protection and reward systems for whistleblowers in the public as well as the private sector strengthen people’s incentive to report.
THE RULE OF LAW
Rule of law ensures that individuals are subject to the law and are treated equally by the law (this rule should be strictly followed by the rulers and against the rulers without any privilege because privilege is the guard of crime like social, civil, economic, political etc), and that no one is subject to arbitrary treatment by state authorities or by any other citizen.
Rule of law ensures that individuals are subject to the law and are treated equally by the law (this rule should be strictly followed by the rulers and against the rulers without any privilege because privilege is the guard of crime like social, civil, economic, political etc), and that no one is subject to arbitrary treatment by state authorities or by any other citizen.
The important prerequisites for rule of law include good laws combined with an efficient enforcement system. Many highly corrupt countries have exemplary formal statutes, but the statutes have no real meaning because they are seldom enforced. Thus a country that is serious about anti-corruption must have effective investigation and prosecution bodies and a well-functioning judicial system that is not itself corrupt. Therefore, on the basis of above discussion we understand that transparency, accountability and participation as part of an anti-corruption strategy should not be underestimated. However, this should also be balanced with this important principle, namely rule of law.
It is clear that addressing the root causes of corruption and minimising the opportunities for corruption requires a comprehensive approach including the public and the private sector. It has to involve the legislature, the executive as well as the judicial branches of the state-apparatus, minimising the opportunity for corruption within these branches and strengthening their capacity to contribute to the overall fight against corruption. It should also ensure active participation and due protection of citizens, civil society and media. Pursuing such an approach requires willingness to reform and resources to fund such reform. We know that it is difficult, but necessary for the society and nation.
Transparency International
Peter Eigen, Founder, Director, and chairman of Transparency International (TI)., a lawyer by training who worked in world bank for economic development and other several Institutions, Government bodies in the world. He was Adjunct Lecturer at the John F. Kennedy School of Government at Harvard University and also a member of the Advisory Council of the Center for International Development at the John F. Kennedy School of Government. He is a Trustee of Crown Agents Foundation as well as a member of the Advisory Commission on the UN, the Global Compact and the Commission on Globalization of the State of the the world forum. He received the Reader’s Digest Award ‘European of the Year 2004’ and became an Honorary Professor of Political Science of the Freie University, Berlin.What is Transparency International? It is only an international nongovernmental organisation devoted to combating corruption, brings civil society, business, and governments together in a powerful global coalition. TI, through its International Secretariat and more than 85 independent national chapters around the world, works at both the national and international level to curb both the supply and demand of corruption. In the international arena, TI raises awareness about the damaging effects of corruption, advocates policy reform, works towards the implementation of multilateral conventions and subsequently monitors compliance by governments, corporations and banks. At the national level, chapters work to increase levels of accountability and transparency, monitoring the performance of key institutions and pressing for necessary reforms in a non-party political manner. In an effort to make long-term gains against orruption, TI focuses on prevention and reforming systems. A principal tool in the fight against corruption is access to information. It is in this spirit that we offer to everybody with an interest in the fight against corruption.
Recommendation- Some of the most anti-corruption pleadings should be formulated with the help of public opinions and making ethical laws to fight against it. There should be an Independent Commission Against Corruption (ICAC). It should be independent, reporting only to the Governor, and functioning independently of the police, which have a reputation for being highly corrupt. It has the power to investigate and prosecute corruption cases and to engage in a campaign of public education. Finally, officials of the ICAC should be paid more than those in other government agencies and should not be transferred to other departments. Dear friends I request you please take this issue with confidence and discuss more also comments and write to N Singh and Direct mail at my personal mailing address nsinghad@gmail.com,algnsinghad@yahoo.co.in. Thanks!
Thursday, May 24, 2007
SHUBH KAMNAYEN
Eshwar aapko shiv ki shakti, meera ki bhakti,
ki siddhi, Chanakya ki buddhi,
Sarda ka gyan, Karan ka dan,
Ram ki maryada avam kuber ki samptti pradan kare!
ki siddhi, Chanakya ki buddhi,
Sarda ka gyan, Karan ka dan,
Ram ki maryada avam kuber ki samptti pradan kare!
AJEEB RISHTE
Rishte jo parivarik jeevan ke sath sath samaj main ek karhi ko
jorthe or torthe hain, personal feelings par aadharit hote hain.
good or bad ho sakati hain kintu kise vyaktigat aadhar par
kaha jai yah ek samajik vidambana hai. Har pal milte hain
milke bichhurte hain fir bhi kuchh kahane se darte hain. Sath
sath chalte hain pass jab hote hain to murh ke nikal jate hain
aakhir kyon?
MY LIFE
Shaili he mera jeevan hai,
Vyavhar meri kala hai,
Yogyata meri prakriti hai,
Swabhav mera roop ore
Bhasa mera gyan hai.
Jyoti mera path, sangharsh mera kartvya hai
Ore parishram mera phal.
Doosaron ka aadar meri bhavna hai
Samman dena meri satwik udarta.
Prasannata meri shakti hai,
Dridh vishwas mera swabhiman.
Krodhvas swabhavik kathorata meri chetavani hai, shakti avam satya ka pratik hai. Sahanshilta meri samajik naitikta hai ore udarta ka pratik bhi hai. Dhanyavad!
Vyavhar meri kala hai,
Yogyata meri prakriti hai,
Swabhav mera roop ore
Bhasa mera gyan hai.
Jyoti mera path, sangharsh mera kartvya hai
Ore parishram mera phal.
Doosaron ka aadar meri bhavna hai
Samman dena meri satwik udarta.
Prasannata meri shakti hai,
Dridh vishwas mera swabhiman.
Krodhvas swabhavik kathorata meri chetavani hai, shakti avam satya ka pratik hai. Sahanshilta meri samajik naitikta hai ore udarta ka pratik bhi hai. Dhanyavad!
SWAVLAMBAN
Pratyake manushya ki shiksha ke dauran ek aisa samay aata hai jab vah is nishkarsh par panhuchata hai ki spardha aghyan hai ore anukampa aatma hatya. Further- Yadi tum parvat ki choti par devdar ke vraksh nahin ban sakate to ghati ke laghu vraksh bania ore yadi vraksh bhi na ban sako to jharhi bania, yadi jhari bhi na ban sako to vah ghas bania jo marga ko sukhad bana sake. Yadi aap kasturi mrig nahin ban sakte to ek machhali hi bania, jhil ki sundar machhali. Hum sabhi captan nahin ban sakte, hamin navik banana hoga. Hamain sabke lia kuchh na kuchh karma hai hi chhota ho ya barha, hamara kam hamare pas hai. Yadi aap rajmarg nahin ban sakte to pagdandi hi bania. Yadi aap suraj na ban sako to tara hi bania kyon ki keval aakar hi se manushya ki safltaya asfalta ka nirvaya nahin hota aap apani swabhaviktanusar shrashtha bania. Doosaron ki nakal na keejia apanon ko pahchania ore jo aap hain vahi bane rahia. Apane jeevan ke khatas ko mithas main badlia.
YOU AND WE HAVE
I desire wisdom as keenly as Solomon did. But it must be wisdom that can be obtained with vary little efforts, wisdom that can be caught almost by infection. I have no time or energy for the laborious quest of philosophy. I wish the philosophers to perform the laborious quest and at the end of it, feed me with the fruits of their labors; just as I get eggs from the farmer, apple from the fruit grower, medicines from the chemist. So, do I expect the philosopher to provide me with wisdom at the cost of a few shillings? That is why at one time I read emersion and at another Marcus Aurelius. To read them I hoped was to become wise. I agreed with them while I read them. But when I had finished reading I was still much. The same man that I had been before incapable of concentrating on the things on which they said I should concentrate or of not being indifferent to the things to which they said I should not be indifferent. Still, I have never lost faith in books, believing that some where printed matter exists from which I shall be able to absorb philosophy and strength of character while smoking in an armchair…….
When the world is normally cheerful and comfortable we hold the philosophers were wise men but that we should be fools to imitate them. We are convinced that, while philosophers are worth reading, material things are worth bothering about. It is as though we enjoyed wisdom as a spectacle a delightful spectacle on a stage which it would be unseemly for the audience to attempt to invade where the Greeks and the Romans made differently? Did the admirers of Socrates and Epictetus really attempt to become philosophers or were they like ourselves. Hopeful of achieving wisdom, not by practice but through a magic potion administered by a wiser man then they. To become wise without effort by listening to a voice, by reading a book it is at once the most exciting and the most soothing of dreams. In such a dream I took down Epictetus and behold it was only a dream.
When the world is normally cheerful and comfortable we hold the philosophers were wise men but that we should be fools to imitate them. We are convinced that, while philosophers are worth reading, material things are worth bothering about. It is as though we enjoyed wisdom as a spectacle a delightful spectacle on a stage which it would be unseemly for the audience to attempt to invade where the Greeks and the Romans made differently? Did the admirers of Socrates and Epictetus really attempt to become philosophers or were they like ourselves. Hopeful of achieving wisdom, not by practice but through a magic potion administered by a wiser man then they. To become wise without effort by listening to a voice, by reading a book it is at once the most exciting and the most soothing of dreams. In such a dream I took down Epictetus and behold it was only a dream.
KALAM (PEN)
Itihas gavah hai puratan se laker aaj tak ham sansar ko disha nirdesh dete aaye hain aur dete bhi rahenge, jab tak bhartia rajneeti purn roop se vidushit hone se bachi rahegi. Bhartia aadhyatma vishawa choti ka adhyatma ka agrani raha hai chahe vah August Comte, Sukrat ya Pluto hon Marx ya Lanin sabhi ko yadi bhartia paridrashya se dekha jai to ve adhyatma darshan ke vyakhya matra the aadhar nahin. Isilia aaj bhi hamin apane aap ko aadhar stambh mante hua un mukhya binduon par vichar karna hoga jo hamari rajneetik mahtwakanksha ko vyaktivad ki vyavastha se alag kar samajik aadarshvadita ki ore agrasar Karain. Hamain rashtriya rajneeti ko bhogolik rajneeti ka darja dena hoga. Shining India ore Aam Aadmi ki rajneeti se upar uthana hoga. Rajneeti ko rajya ke sath he na rakhakar aadhyatma ke sath bhi jorhna hoga ore yah tabhi sambhav ho payega jab “Kalam” vyapar na bankar parivatan ki chetana banegi. Gharon ke bed room or bath room ki vyakhya na kar rajbhawan ke karyon ki uchit avalokna karegi.
A WOMAN'S MASSAGE FOR WOMEN
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Are today's women respected all over the world? The women seem to use any way want to get ahead. They'll show body parts, be submissive, or do anything to gain recognition. If you watch any television show, especially those on MTV, BET, VH1, or any network that broadcasts music videos and also on roads, shopping malls, restaurants etc, women are everywhere. You will see women with their bodies exposed, dancing around smoking, drinking, and parting like rock stars. You could catch women catering to men or women even playing ditsy roles on commercials or movies. I don't believe that those women understand how bad it looks to be up on a stage in a music video with their boobs out or their bottoms somewhat showing. Take for instance Jessica Simpson. She's anotable and very intelligent young lady but she portrays herself as a ditz because that's how she makes her living. She's beautiful, sexy, and has billions of talents, but she doesn't let on that's she's actually really smart. In today's society women are depicted as nothing more then sexual beings. If you look around a campus or sit and talk with a male he'll openly admit that women are nothing more than sexual objects. With a mind frame and beliefs such as that, women aren't going to move up in any cooperate world or the world period. Even women of the age (15-25) believe that sex is important and will willingly give in to a man sexually if she feels that it'd keep him around in any way. I have friends who openly admit into falling into temptation with a man who they honestly know doesn't want them in any way other than for sexual experiences. They say that it just happened or he's not like you think. They feel their "in love" but settles for the one night stands because, "that's just the way things go." Yeah right! My first week attending a club, I saw how girls would prance around with short skirts, tight shirts, and/or little to nothing on. The next week I witnessed how girls would throw themselves to boys. Even if a male would call her out her name she'd completely pay no attention to the matter. She'd continue to prance around and excuse all the rude and condescending remarks.
Men don't treat us with the respect we deserve sometimes, maybe because of all the views of the world. Or maybe because of they sense the weakness in females today. Women don't assert themselves at all. If a guy trashes them it's just fine because they're too scared to voice their opinions or say how they feel.Being a female, I don't fault women for using what they have to get ahead. I fault women for not using their brains enough to do the same. Instead of showcasing your boobs, show what brains you have. If you're a beautiful woman use your beauty and not your body, and understand the difference between the two. I don't think society can see the talents we have, or what we can add to the world when all they look at is what we put on display. Think about Halle Berry. She only plays sexy and some action roles, but as society sees it, never smart roles. See that's the catch 22 in every aspect. A woman can't be smart and beautiful, or sexy and smart. A woman can only be what society makes her out to be and that should not be tolerated by men or women. Instead of giving in to how society views her, Berry uses her brains to prove society wrong. By playing in movies like "Introducing Dorothy Dandridge" or "Losing Isaiah," Berry showed her acting talents and not just what her body looks like in a bikini. Women are certainly frowned upon, but if we change the way people see us we can prove that not only are we sexual beings, we're also capable of changing the world with our wits and brains. Every woman might not feel the same way I do, but every woman understands where I'm coming from. We've all been put in categories as sexual beings, but we can only change that if we want to.
Men don't treat us with the respect we deserve sometimes, maybe because of all the views of the world. Or maybe because of they sense the weakness in females today. Women don't assert themselves at all. If a guy trashes them it's just fine because they're too scared to voice their opinions or say how they feel.Being a female, I don't fault women for using what they have to get ahead. I fault women for not using their brains enough to do the same. Instead of showcasing your boobs, show what brains you have. If you're a beautiful woman use your beauty and not your body, and understand the difference between the two. I don't think society can see the talents we have, or what we can add to the world when all they look at is what we put on display. Think about Halle Berry. She only plays sexy and some action roles, but as society sees it, never smart roles. See that's the catch 22 in every aspect. A woman can't be smart and beautiful, or sexy and smart. A woman can only be what society makes her out to be and that should not be tolerated by men or women. Instead of giving in to how society views her, Berry uses her brains to prove society wrong. By playing in movies like "Introducing Dorothy Dandridge" or "Losing Isaiah," Berry showed her acting talents and not just what her body looks like in a bikini. Women are certainly frowned upon, but if we change the way people see us we can prove that not only are we sexual beings, we're also capable of changing the world with our wits and brains. Every woman might not feel the same way I do, but every woman understands where I'm coming from. We've all been put in categories as sexual beings, but we can only change that if we want to.
Wednesday, May 23, 2007
DUKH DURBHAGYA- BHARAT BHAGYA VIDHATA
Dayniya dasha ka chitran- made by Nirala in his poem "Bhikshu"
Vah aata
Do took kaleje ke karta pachhatata path par aata,
Pet peeth dono milkar hain ek
Chal raha lakutia tek,
Mutthee bhar danon ko, bhookh mitane ko,
Munh fatie purani jholi ka failata,
Do took……..
Sath do bacche bhi hain sadan hath failae,
Baien se ve malte hua pet ko chalte ore dahina daya drashti
pane ke or badhaie,
Bhook se sookh owth jab jate,
Data bhagya vidhata se kya pate?
Ghoont aonsuon ke pikar rah jate,
Chat rahe jhooti pattal ve sabhi sarak par khare hua,
Ore jhapat lene ko unase kutte bhi hain arthe hua.
Thanks my dear Indian.
Vah aata
Do took kaleje ke karta pachhatata path par aata,
Pet peeth dono milkar hain ek
Chal raha lakutia tek,
Mutthee bhar danon ko, bhookh mitane ko,
Munh fatie purani jholi ka failata,
Do took……..
Sath do bacche bhi hain sadan hath failae,
Baien se ve malte hua pet ko chalte ore dahina daya drashti
pane ke or badhaie,
Bhook se sookh owth jab jate,
Data bhagya vidhata se kya pate?
Ghoont aonsuon ke pikar rah jate,
Chat rahe jhooti pattal ve sabhi sarak par khare hua,
Ore jhapat lene ko unase kutte bhi hain arthe hua.
Thanks my dear Indian.
Wednesday, May 16, 2007
MY FEELINGS ABOUT SOCIETY
Achanak mujhe mere bachapan ka vo waqt yad aata hai,
Jab main chhota tha natkhat tha
larhta tha jhagarhta tha doosaron se
Sarartain karta tha apnon se
Darta tha mata pita se ore sikha
Sacchai, swabhiman ore swavlamben ko unhin se.
Barha hua aage barha bahar gaya
Dosta mile dushman bhi mile
Dosta kam dushman jyada bane,
Fir bhi main aage badhata raha
Kam oron ke bahut aaya
Apne kam koi na aaya
Mujhe vo waqt…………..
Garib ko bhi dekha ore amir ko bhi
Farq donon main bas etna paya
Amir ne paisa paya garib ne pasina bahaya
Garib ne mahal banaye amir ne jhoparhi
Garib ne amir ko bhagwan banaya
Amir ne garib ko janwar
Amir khata raha garib dekhta raha
Do took pane ko bhook mitane ko
Taras fhir bhi na aaya
Mujhe vo waqt……
Hajaron main ek ko larhte dekha un garibon ke liye
Masiha bhi bana unke liye jindagi ke us anta tak jahan koi na raha uske liya.
Socho kya ye sab galat hai
Yadi nahin to fir …………
Din bitate rahe samay jata raha log bhagte rahe doosaron ko lootane ke liye ore apne aap ko duniya ki najaron ke samne …………
Jab main chhota tha natkhat tha
larhta tha jhagarhta tha doosaron se
Sarartain karta tha apnon se
Darta tha mata pita se ore sikha
Sacchai, swabhiman ore swavlamben ko unhin se.
Barha hua aage barha bahar gaya
Dosta mile dushman bhi mile
Dosta kam dushman jyada bane,
Fir bhi main aage badhata raha
Kam oron ke bahut aaya
Apne kam koi na aaya
Mujhe vo waqt…………..
Garib ko bhi dekha ore amir ko bhi
Farq donon main bas etna paya
Amir ne paisa paya garib ne pasina bahaya
Garib ne mahal banaye amir ne jhoparhi
Garib ne amir ko bhagwan banaya
Amir ne garib ko janwar
Amir khata raha garib dekhta raha
Do took pane ko bhook mitane ko
Taras fhir bhi na aaya
Mujhe vo waqt……
Hajaron main ek ko larhte dekha un garibon ke liye
Masiha bhi bana unke liye jindagi ke us anta tak jahan koi na raha uske liya.
Socho kya ye sab galat hai
Yadi nahin to fir …………
Din bitate rahe samay jata raha log bhagte rahe doosaron ko lootane ke liye ore apne aap ko duniya ki najaron ke samne …………
KNOW ME
I am poor. You are rich. We all are equal. How?
Ø Who am I, to know more? I am a man having little knowledge but true features, high moral with good ideas, deep thing and sweet voice. Know me:
Ø I am obedient person and very artistic disposition. I am analytical in my thinking and can not take decision without data and facts.
Ø I take things in life seriously. Nothing is casual for me.
Ø I aggressively peruse my objectives and goals. I want to more ahead without compromising.
Ø I am very logical in my approach and my discussions too. I always win the point on logical grounds.
Ø Temperamentally I am very even. I do not allow my emotions to take over.
Ø I am talkative, prefer to talk then listen and am very competitive.
Ø I have a creative mind. I always see beyond the immediate while creating solutions. I see many sides of the issue.
Ø I am very sociable. I like to meet people and have rich interactions with them.
Ø I am a perfectionist. I can not tolerate imperfection. I like to do the work my self.
Ø I am highly adaptable. I do not find any difficulty in dealing with different type of people and places.
Ø I like to dress up fashionably. I am very up to date with my wardrobe.
Ø I do not like disorderliness in my surroundings. I am neat and tidy.
Ø I am compassionate in my approach to others. I care about others feelings and try to help them.
Ø I am a simple person. My behavior is predictable.
Ø What ever I do or think, I am very confident and volunteer to help.
Ø I am very persuasion. I can convince people with my thoughts and ideas. I am humble with nature.
Ø I like to work independently. I hate to be directed.
Ø I set goals and pursue them with determination. I always think of tomorrow.
Ø I am very spontaneous in my action, mildly stubborn, generally calm and composed in trying situation.
Ø In the last I have no hesitation in taking support, discussion on typical problems or issues and give proper response to others.
Ø Who am I, to know more? I am a man having little knowledge but true features, high moral with good ideas, deep thing and sweet voice. Know me:
Ø I am obedient person and very artistic disposition. I am analytical in my thinking and can not take decision without data and facts.
Ø I take things in life seriously. Nothing is casual for me.
Ø I aggressively peruse my objectives and goals. I want to more ahead without compromising.
Ø I am very logical in my approach and my discussions too. I always win the point on logical grounds.
Ø Temperamentally I am very even. I do not allow my emotions to take over.
Ø I am talkative, prefer to talk then listen and am very competitive.
Ø I have a creative mind. I always see beyond the immediate while creating solutions. I see many sides of the issue.
Ø I am very sociable. I like to meet people and have rich interactions with them.
Ø I am a perfectionist. I can not tolerate imperfection. I like to do the work my self.
Ø I am highly adaptable. I do not find any difficulty in dealing with different type of people and places.
Ø I like to dress up fashionably. I am very up to date with my wardrobe.
Ø I do not like disorderliness in my surroundings. I am neat and tidy.
Ø I am compassionate in my approach to others. I care about others feelings and try to help them.
Ø I am a simple person. My behavior is predictable.
Ø What ever I do or think, I am very confident and volunteer to help.
Ø I am very persuasion. I can convince people with my thoughts and ideas. I am humble with nature.
Ø I like to work independently. I hate to be directed.
Ø I set goals and pursue them with determination. I always think of tomorrow.
Ø I am very spontaneous in my action, mildly stubborn, generally calm and composed in trying situation.
Ø In the last I have no hesitation in taking support, discussion on typical problems or issues and give proper response to others.
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